Yes, the ater is morally culpable for the ating. The moral responsibility does not lie with the person who was ated upon. Given that, it is important to forgive and forget. True forgiveness means that you let go of all of the anger related to the incident. You never bring it up again. You never let it cloud your relationship.
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Love Week, Day 2: Dating After 40
Commit to it like a part-time job.